How quick we are to judge others based on our assumptions, I realised this today with a little tiff that mum ended up having at the market, with a shop keeper who may not have delivered as expected. Both mum n I were adamant that it was done deliberately, until I realised we should be giving the man the benefit of the doubt until he is proven guilty, till then, we don't get to judge him or say bad stuff about him. It's just wrong and shouldn't be done.
With the way my life has been, different than my mum's, I've learned to realise that it's not completely wrong to give others a little room for error, after all they are human too.
That said, I don't blame ami for her reactions, the way life had treated her is what has led her to react in the ways she does.
When I was very young, someone said "we are all a product of our circumstances" I didn't fully understand the concept back then. But now I do, with the new people I meet, it's so much easier to understand what they do and why they do it once I understand the things that they have been through. It makes life so much easier. For them and for me.
So let us all put on our grown-up pants n learn to give others some room to maneuver.
With that I bid you all good night, take care, stay happy, share love and cherish the time that you have.
Ta!
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